Parents’ attitude will affect the child’s character-freelander2

The attitude of the parents will affect the child’s personality experts said that the mother and child rearing children in the early childhood will affect the child’s adult interpersonal model. Some young parents raising children have no experience, sometimes resentment or alienate baby, baby, sometimes feel sorry baby, and her kiss. Easy to make your baby’s anxiety. Some young parents raising children have no experience, sometimes resentment or alienate baby, baby, sometimes feel sorry baby, and her kiss. The results, because the baby got the attitude of impermanence, sometimes hot and sometimes cold, baby don’t know Mom and dad will be on when and how to respond to the physical and psychological needs, which is easy for the baby to learn children will lead to anxiety, develop interpersonal anxiety type conflict mode. Experts also found that some parents only concerned about their preferences, but did not estimate the baby’s needs, in fact, in the right time to stimulate the baby is the best. If the baby is hungry, you have to take him to sleep; or the baby wants to play, but you have to give him something to eat, the child will resent anxiety. Some young parents, especially young mother, because of busy work negligence with baby, so baby at first may be crying for love, but because they are not, they learn to gradually suppress love, it is easy to become lonely, introverted, lack of love and easy to give and receive love the ability of interpersonal skills, this is the avoidant pattern. Such a person may be suppressed because of their needs for love, life may not find a high quality of their own romantic love. Experts said that the first two is a more common way of error parenting, and safe parenting is to meet the needs of the baby’s physical and emotional needs. In this way, the children will feel that they are valuable, is loved, grew up, they are more likely to establish interpersonal trust, communication ability is stronger.相关的主题文章: